ok got some pics of the relay. Here is the relay i used http://www.summitracing.com/parts/SUM-890023/?rtype=10

DSC00178[1].jpg I mounted here because hole aready there and didn't want to drill new one, mainly not sure if this is going to permenant location future upgrades may move relay. I had to replace lead from relay to pump which was only 12g and (A) wire too short (B) run was long enough needed to be at least 10g so that is what it got. I pulled wire, carefully uncrimped female connector recrimped and soldered 10g in.

DSC00179[1].jpg Here is the circut breaker that came with relay, right post from battery left to relay.

DSC00180[1].jpg DSC00181[1].jpg Here is pressure switches, left or top is safety switch for fuel pump other is just oil pressure. I put them up and angled for built in drain back feature didn't want switch(s) just sitting in oil, been working good so far.