Currently on my lunch break but called the shop back. turns out they never ajusted the top control arms like I asked them to at least check since I didnt ajust them when replacing (forgot). theyll take it back next week
hope its mostly that, i dont expect perfection but at least for it to run better than that with everything new.
right now caster is too forward.
other than that pitman is new, tierods, idler arm fine, tires already rotated, not perfect but more than good enough, shocks arent too old and good too. its really that little bit about the front sorta pinching itself when going forward thats weird but again if they didnt play enough with the caster it might just be that. will see more next week.
the more i work on it the more i wanna sell it hahaha