In my world, we help each other with the basics, first, before indulging in privelage.In any Divine Judgement, we will not be held in contempt for what we said, but for that which we refused to share.
I understand this is off-topic, but I thank you for bringing this issue up: it is a conspicuous...but unspoken...frustration of this forum. (Other forums, too, from my experience).
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